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Discovering the Power of Brainspotting in Your Healing Journey

12/9/2024

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When life feels overwhelming—whether from trauma, anxiety, or persistent challenges—it’s easy to feel stuck, as though something inside is holding you back from fully healing. Over my years as a therapist, I’ve come to understand that lasting transformation often requires more than traditional talk therapy. This is where Brainspotting becomes a game-changer.

What Is Brainspotting?

Brainspotting is a therapeutic technique that helps access and process deeply rooted emotional pain, often stored in the body and subconscious mind. Developed by Dr. David Grand, this method is based on the idea that where you look affects how you feel.

Here’s how it works:
During a session, we identify “brainspots”—specific eye positions linked to areas in your brain where unprocessed trauma or emotional distress is stored. By focusing on these brainspots while accessing the emotions tied to them, your brain can process and release what’s been holding you back.

Why Is Brainspotting So Powerful?
Unlike traditional therapy, which often focuses on analyzing or discussing problems, Brainspotting taps directly into your brain’s ability to heal itself. This approach bypasses the conscious mind and accesses the deeper areas of the brain responsible for emotional regulation and memory. Many of my clients describe Brainspotting as a breakthrough experience, saying things like: “I finally felt relief from emotions I didn’t even know I was carrying.” “It was as though I could see and feel my healing happening in real-time.”

What Makes Brainspotting Integral to My Practice?

As someone who has worked with individuals facing trauma, grief, anxiety, and relational challenges, I’ve seen firsthand how traditional methods can sometimes leave clients feeling stuck.

Brainspotting fills that gap by allowing us to:
Address the Root of the Problem: Instead of just managing symptoms, Brainspotting helps process the underlying causes of emotional pain.
Create a Safe, Focused Space: The process is client-centered, meaning you remain in control of your experience. Together, we gently navigate the emotions and memories that surface.
Encourage Lasting Healing: By accessing and releasing stored trauma, clients often find relief not just emotionally, but physically and spiritually as well.

Who Can Benefit from Brainspotting?
Brainspotting is effective for a wide range of challenges, including:
Trauma and PTSD: Unprocessed traumatic experiences.
Anxiety and Stress: Persistent feelings of worry or overwhelm.
Grief and Loss: Deep emotional pain following a loss.
Relational Challenges: Struggles with codependency or conflict.
Chronic Pain and Somatic Issues: Emotional pain manifesting physically.

Whether you’re navigating a specific issue or simply feel “stuck,” Brainspotting offers a unique path to clarity, relief, and renewal.

Making Brainspotting Relatable
Imagine this: You’ve been carrying a heavy backpack for years. You’ve learned to live with the weight, but it slows you down and keeps you from moving forward. Brainspotting is like opening that backpack, finding the heaviest items, and setting them down. Suddenly, your steps are lighter, your path is clearer, and you have the energy to move toward what matters most.

How Brainspotting Fits Into My Faith-Based Approach
As a Christian therapist, I believe in addressing the whole person—mind, body, and spirit. Brainspotting aligns beautifully with this holistic approach. It allows us to honor the emotional and physical experiences God has given us while releasing the burdens we were never meant to carry alone.

Take the Next Step in Your Healing
​If you’ve been feeling stuck or weighed down by unresolved emotions, Brainspotting might be the key to unlocking your healing. Together, we can explore this powerful method and discover how it fits into your unique journey. You don’t have to do this alone. Reach out today to learn more or schedule an appointment. I look forward to walking with you toward hope, healing, and renewal.

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Healing Connections

6/14/2016

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Guilt vs. Grief

People often tell me they feel guilty when I can see no evidence they did something wrong. Guilt is an emotion associated with violating one's moral code. I frequently hear people say someone else made them feel guilty. Did you know that no one has the power to make you feel any emotion that you do not agree to feel? Eleanor Roosevelt said, "No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." When it comes to feelings, attitudes and choices, having a good understanding of boundaries is essential to knowing what is and isn't your responsibility. Being able to distinguish what is and isn't yours to own is very liberating, empowering in fact. It engenders self-confidence and alleviates undue stress. I once had a friend who lamented how guilty she felt for deciding to reenter the workplace and leave her children with a sitter. The decision to go back to work had been an agonizing one for her and her husband. This couple determined having a double income was necessary and in their family's best interest. In the course of our discussion, my friend realized it was actually sadness and grief that she was feeling. She came to understand that, although she was mourning the loss of time she could now spend with her children, she hadn't violated her moral code and did not need to feel guilty. 
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